I started to write about meeting God in my Mama’s kitchen back in October of 2023. I wrote the titled and walked away from my laptop. I don’t know why I walked away, but I’m pretty sure its because my attention went to something else. My mind scatters. I guess you can call it adult ADHD or maybe a lack of discipline.
I think the conversation started one Sunday after church when I realized that the sermon preached that morning was about meeting God in the sanctuary, or the presence of God meets us in the sanctuary, or something like that, and of course, I was the one preaching the sermon. Yes! God does have a sense of humor. The after church crew talked about the old parishioners of the church who they heard singing gospel songs, not in the church, but in their homes. The women sang in the kitchen while cooking and there would be an outburst of praise. In the kitchen is where the Spirit and the fragrance of good cooking, were stirred up together and you could not help but be nourished both physically and spiritually.
I came home and it dawned on me, I did not meet God in the church. I met God in my mama’s kitchen. I met God hearing her singing spirituals while cooking eggs and grits for breakfast. I met God while she mixed together ingredients to make the best sour creme pound cake I ever had. I met God making coffee and putting enough sugar and milk in a small cup, which she places in front of me, to make me feel like a grown up while she slurped her coffee by my side. I met God in my mama’s kitchen, while she looked in the cupboards to figure out how she can stretch a meal until the monthly food stamps arrived. In my mama’s kitchen, I heard prayers, asking for help, in an always strong and authoritative voice crying out to God to make a way out of no way.
She always showed up in mama’s kitchen, with the warmth of a sweet potato pie and the softness of a hot butter roll. She greeted me after school with my favorite, a bologna sandwich on Sunbeam white bread. In my mama’s kitchen – this is where I met God.
It is in our relationships where God is always present. Not in a building, or a ritual, or even just a worship service. God is present in every facet of our lives, not in some miraculously way, but in the most simplistic ways, such as in the preparation of a meal.
May you experience the love of God in your life this New Year, 2024! May you find your voice and hold on to it. Be Well!!!
Rev. JacquiP